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Webinar: How to Represent Yourself in Family Court

Webinar: How to Represent Yourself in Family Court

Billie Tarascio with Access Legal and Modern Law provides this free of charge webinar on how to represent yourself in family court. Whether you have a divorce, child custody, child support, or enforcement case, this webinar is for you. Learn more at


  1. m o on February 7, 2019 at 5:44 pm

    I’ll save you one hour. Don’t represent yourself

  2. Benny Lee on February 7, 2019 at 5:44 pm

    It is hard to represent yourself especially if the opposing side has an attorney..the non judicial person or judge will usually give them the benefit of the doubt to them over you since they are in the same club..the American bar association..the theatrical show they put on is a criminal conspiracy to get you to agree to their terms which will be a profit for the attorneys n court appointed people..if they would only follow the laws which has been prescribed by the supreme court..there wouldn’t be so much corruption..the laws are not being followed and the ones who doesnt catch them committing the crimes by violating your civil rights and the laws of the land will always lose

  3. Prentiss Armstrong on February 7, 2019 at 5:44 pm

    If you walk into a court with an attorney the court considers you incompetent. That’s why you have your attorney with you is so he or she can make all the decisions for you.

  4. theclanplus1 on February 7, 2019 at 5:45 pm

    Heh.. how about when your in laws have kidnapped your child, refuse to give him back and now you and your husband are fighting together as a married couple because your in laws believe you are ‘dangerous’. Yeah, I had postpartum depression. But seriously? I wonder what would happen if my husband and I filed for notice of strict compliance? As the in laws accusations are entirely false and even discriminatory and we as legal parents have nothing to hide. In fact we have medical professionals I’d been seeing for my postpartum completely ready to step in, as my child is being verbally abused by my in laws right now. My husband found this out as only he’s allowed to visit our son.

  5. Little Andrew on February 7, 2019 at 5:47 pm

    The pro se law clinic at the court house in the county is a big help. And one can go to the legal library usually in the city’s District Courthouse. The librarian there will help you much to find what book you need to study and you can video record the pages to read later. The motions must be prepared exact to the rules and procedures of that county court. To do this pro se, it takes a lot of reading and staying on top it.

  6. ALLDAY Gomez on February 7, 2019 at 5:51 pm

    Need advice regarding false claims being brought up against me and lies told bout my character. It seems like accountability, truth, or evidence to know actual truth is even looked into. I’m fighting against a controlling women and need to know how truth can be seen. Reality would be great if just that could be seen truthfully. Tired of defending against a ghost that is not real

  7. tmrolo on February 7, 2019 at 5:54 pm

    Do i still have to pay support if my ex moves my child out of state with out my permission?

  8. ki theshepherd on February 7, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    I have questions about disclosure. do you have a contact number

  9. It Doesnt Matter on February 7, 2019 at 6:01 pm

    She says we represent ourselves…what a joke. What she is saying women get an attorney or representation for free as most men go in there and represent themselves.

  10. Tinamarie ADVM6 on February 7, 2019 at 6:02 pm

    How do I word my own emergancy custody form. I put temporary primary custody. Then in my paperwork I listed the reasons why. Drugs, neglect ect. Did I word it wrong?

  11. terry mais walters on February 7, 2019 at 6:02 pm

    If your married for 4years and your getting a divorce. How long does it take

  12. Jehovah Jesus on February 7, 2019 at 6:05 pm

    the ex parte order is a trick to get custody, it works 9 out of 10 times, hence, lying and saying you need protection from a man you felt safe enough with to open your legs to a couple years back, is the best way to secure custody. Common knowledge, but you may be hurting your daughters with your lies, they wont be able to use this tactic when they go into court because guys are wising up to the lady’s lying ways lol.
    The specific time for visitation is about title D-4 federal funds management, its a money issue.
    Trust me folks, this lady is lying for her career, family court is full of liars and thief’s and criminals, and like much else in our society its a money game, make no mistake ‘the best interests of the child’ will be the last thing considered.

  13. Rod Champion on February 7, 2019 at 6:05 pm

    Great Info. Thank you for sharing.

  14. Joey Sanchez on February 7, 2019 at 6:06 pm

    thank you!

  15. Uncle Timo on February 7, 2019 at 6:07 pm


  16. Jose Antonio Quintana on February 7, 2019 at 6:07 pm

    Okay this is 2019 and I’ve been railroaded twice by Family court System.
    First one was terrible but I won after my “wife” son and suffered so much.

    THIS TIME my children and I are on the rails .
    with my estranged “wife” now ON THE TRAIN everyone else involved remained the same.

  17. willaminaviolet on February 7, 2019 at 6:08 pm

    If you are here looking for knowledge and/or information regarding “fighting CPS”, representing yourself in court, etc. There is nothing you can do to save yourself. Judges are bias against Pro Se litigants. You will not be released from the clutches of the system until you have somehow become a benefit financially to the court. If your marriage didn’t work the court will punish you for it. To invite the court into your life you are promised they will determine the worst case scenario. This attorney is full of garbage. There is nothing you can do to save your soul. Ex Parte is one of the biggest abuses of the system.

  18. Rick W on February 7, 2019 at 6:09 pm

    When notified you send to Secy of HHS a dispute under 45 CFR Part 32.4 and demand to review copies of proof of debt under 45 CFR part 32.4

  19. A Rodriguez on February 7, 2019 at 6:09 pm

    The best advise,,,,people don’t you ever get married

  20. Elizabeth Podest on February 7, 2019 at 6:10 pm

    What are the steps to get a subpoena filed and served? I have been in litigation for over 2 years and my attorney was unable to get my ex husbands bank statements. My ex filed a Motion to Modify Child Support and I have no idea how much he makes and I fired my attorney. I am no pro se and have run out of time to get the bank records from my ex so I am trying to subpoena… I just don’t want to mess up the subpoena. I have already had the subpoena signed by the clerk and served the other party with it and sent it off but is anything supposed to accompany the subpoena? I read about a Notice to the Consumer but who drafts this and who is it sent to??? So many questions…

  21. Christina Acevedo on February 7, 2019 at 6:10 pm

    i filed a restraining order against my husband for domestic abuse he hired a lawyer two days before hearing so I scrambled to get an attorney free from local domestic abuse facility helped me obtain a lawyer as he took all the money. Minutes before we were to have our hearing his lawyer pulled a sneaky move and asked for visitation and My husband would not fight the restraining order. My lawyer told me to take the deal even though I had told her kids have seen this abuse he has been Out of control when he spanks my son and my daughter is afraid of him my lawyers Response was if there’s no evidence there’s nothing you can do at this point take the deal argue in Family Court. The very next day my husband again for the third time since the temporary restraining order now permanent has been issued my husband Uses a third-party person to relay messages to me I called the police and they told me again that he is just trying to abide by the agreement arrangement. The lawyers and him keep changing the terms of our verbal agreement. So I had to send my lawyer a long email stating all this is not what we agreed on and her response is your not making yourself look good when you go to family court. Also since he’s been moved out I also found a loaded gun in my garage and I’m afraid to tell the police about this because when I told police about him contacting the third-party I was told he’s just trying to abide by the agreement and restraining order so my thought is there going to say it’s not his gun do you have any advice for me at this point. The other factor is the agreement we verbally mean in regards to arrangement for the children suddenly change about my lawyers and and his lawyers and he wants more time than we discussed and he wants to be able to pick up the kids whatever he chooses so also i found a loaded gun In my attic in garage I’m sure they’re just going to say she’s just saying that to frame him. Any advice would be of help I’m just beside myself not sleeping and Continuously been victimized by everybody I feel even my lawyer

  22. enquiry enquiry on February 7, 2019 at 6:15 pm

    well done to this guy! the same abuse is consistent globally in such matters, including the UK, where it’s legal to steal, home, savings, jewellery, lock up wife in Saudi arabia and attempt to kill wife, TWICE! all ongoing court claims as a litigant in person in 16 court claims-CORRUPTION IS RAMPANT!

  23. TheDoc1021 on February 7, 2019 at 6:15 pm

    What about child custody orders within a PFA?

  24. Brian Myers on February 7, 2019 at 6:15 pm

    If this botch gulps her drink on the microphone again I’ll send wolves to tear her throat out you digusting pig

  25. spiceyfood52 on February 7, 2019 at 6:16 pm

    It is good that your doing this, if you still are. This is 2018 , now. So this is why kids do not get to come home, the family court has control over the funds that they get from the government. In 2001 on family got 40,billion dollars to take care of the cps case’s and they have immunity from Hillary Clinton and Bill, so family will get a bonce if they keep the child in the system, the cps it a bounce, and anyone who is working the cases of family court. Our government gave immunity to family court to do what they will to the cps cases. The one real reason that we represent our selfs is because we are not on the take where the cash bounce come from, we want our kids, and we want all kids to come home, our kids are not the bank for family court. If we do our court ourselfs then the family court has to listen to us. CPS lies all the time in family court, the judge allows them to lie so they can all get there bounces. You all have immunity and this year in 2018 I am sure that the money in take is well over 80 billion now. Just wanted you to know we all know what family court is all about.

  26. Proverbs 3:5-6 on February 7, 2019 at 6:18 pm

    responding as Proverbs 3:5-6:  I need information on pro se representation in a divorce case with no children in Duplin County, NC

  27. LiquidMocoFilms LLC on February 7, 2019 at 6:18 pm

    Attorneys are scum! One of the only professions that lets the service provider (attorney) charge whatever the fuck they want!!!???? Their practicing license is their license to steal. Judges are worse!!

    We have a family court judge in our district that doesn’t even have children!!! WTF!!! That’s like getting a history teacher to grade some physics tests!!!

    Attorneys write in language so that only THEY can DECODE it so that you have to hire them so that they get more money. Attorneys are never in the best interest of the client, they are in the best interest of their pocket books.

  28. Bertha Braggs on February 7, 2019 at 6:20 pm

    my ex iscontesting the the supplement Inc what shall I do should I contesting the divorce I also a text with my ex promising me insurance

  29. ALLDAY Gomez on February 7, 2019 at 6:20 pm

    File of struck compliance I really guess is my best hope??

  30. Mick Block on February 7, 2019 at 6:22 pm

    Az is curruption at best

  31. James Jones on February 7, 2019 at 6:22 pm

    does anybody have a sMoke or template for a declaration letter asking judge for more time

  32. wkdemers on February 7, 2019 at 6:22 pm

    If you’re a man you can expect shooting craps to pay out before facts and evidence, statutes and process does in family Court. Family court is a SCAM!

  33. bluewater454 on February 7, 2019 at 6:24 pm

    Can a notice of strict compliance be filed in family court for a custody case?

  34. Maxwell Bernstein on February 7, 2019 at 6:26 pm

    What’s your Facebook Forum Link? Thanks!

  35. Linda Ryan on February 7, 2019 at 6:29 pm

    I filed for Divorce with temporary orders I submitted that I already planned a vacation and already paid for with fathers approval. Could that be denied?

  36. IllinoisFamilyLaw on February 7, 2019 at 6:30 pm

    "…I love family law…" She loves it because it’s so low stress/low drama, pays great, and has easy hours….

  37. Little Andrew on February 7, 2019 at 6:31 pm

    What is the Facebook forum she was talking about…??

  38. Joey Sanchez on February 7, 2019 at 6:31 pm

    love your voice.

  39. Cheetos TheCheeseThatGoesCrunch on February 7, 2019 at 6:32 pm

    What if the plaintiff is recorded admitting falsifying documentations ? What do I do to get this before the judge ?

  40. miles Unit on February 7, 2019 at 6:32 pm

    Pretty clear that your focus group is women. Based on your initial 5 mins of monologue

  41. Steven Palange on February 7, 2019 at 6:34 pm

    Yo Billie! 😉 You did Good here…I’m reaching out to you.

  42. SC EM on February 7, 2019 at 6:34 pm

    Look past the people to find truth. It is evil using these people to disenfranchise the Fathers, (men) further empower women, and ultimately to take down the Family, which is the same as destroying the foundation of what this Country was. A good analogy is to think of the family like a ship. There has been a mutiny, inspired by both this women’s lib movement, and exploited by the Gov. for both profit, and control. The Captain (Father) has been taken out of Command. What was the “First Mate” (Mother) has tried her best to seize/takeover control of said ship. And after said attempt, and almost complete failure the children have taken over the ship. Why? Because it is the exact opposite of what God’s will is, was, and has been for thousands of years up until our arrogance has tried to turn such once sanctified, and strongly valued moral Christian-based tradition completely upside down in only a few decades. Yet we continue to be blinded by said arrogance as to why our this Nation is in such moral decline. Our ships are now adrift without direction, or moral compass. You cannot have two Captains in a house, any more than on a Ship. And our arrogance dictates that we no longer learn, and haven’t in a VERY long time. We are fast becoming a Godless Nation despite our empty claims/words of loving, and knowing God. “Pretty is as pretty does.” We all had/have a place, and contrary to our idealogical, and convenient wants, (Politically Correctness) we were NOT created equal. But rather carefully designed with our own unique diverse strengths. In order that our families, when serving as God has clearly laid out to function as a team. (Family unit) Time tested tried and true culture thrown out the window. But we MUST be right, and know better than what God laid out? Obviously not. We couldn’t be more wrong. What would our “Elders” know? That wisdom that had been passed down through so many generations was no good. Right? Wrong. We become more, and more spoiled, and arrogant, so we (the moment they become the least bit inconvenient) kick our wise Elders into the “Care Facilities” rather than valuing such precious wisdom. You WILL NOT find this in the vast majority of the Middle East, and the Far East. In fact, even if you tried to explain to them what “a Nursing Home” was/is, they’d have no clue why anyone would do/need such a thing. They respect their elders, and there is no question of doing anything other than honoring them, and in essence LEARNING from such truly valuable wisdom. We are the exact opposite. Truth.

  43. Simply Dee on February 7, 2019 at 6:35 pm

    Can you tell me if the discovery is before pretrial or after?

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